child you
adopt may have some special needs, depending on their original family
circumstances. Public agencies do not place children for adoption until they
have been legally deemed available so issues with birth parents are less common.
State law determines how confidentiality of adoption records is handled.
There are many, many children in
need of permanent homes. These adoptions generally have very few costs
associated with them and sometimes include subsidies if the child has special
needs. They can also be accomplished relatively quickly and with excellent
oversight and supervision.
However, you must feel able to cope with any issues
that the child brings to you from their prior unhealthy living situation. As
well, there are rarely infants available through this pathway. Infants who are
removed from the home go into foster care and are most frequently adopted by
foster parents. It can also take some time to declare the infant available for
adoption, during which time he or he is growing older.
The U.S. Department of Health &
Human Services’ Administration for Children and Families maintains a complete
listing of all public agencies by state with contact names, telephone numbers,
websites, etc. You can find the listing here. http://naic.acf.hhs.gov/general/nad/index.cfm
Private Adoption Agencies
Most states license private adoption
agencies whose role is to facilitate adoptions. That role includes identifying
prospective parent(s) and children in need, conducting home studies to evaluate
the prospective parent(s) ability to be a good parent, arranging the adoption
and providing post-placement services.
These licensed agencies offer the
advantages of having expert staff that are knowledgeable in all aspects of the
adoption process to guide you, established programs with agencies, outreach to
people who want to place a child for adoption and resources to work through any
bumps in the road.
Private agencies often work both
domestically and internationally and they are, for all practical purposes, the
only way to pursue international adoption. Private agencies provide one way to
adopt a healthy infant from the United States.
The disadvantages of the private agency are primarily higher
cost since you pay the agency fees as well and, in some cases, agencies set
their own criteria for eligibility to adopt. Those criteria may include, for
example, a particular religious affiliation for some faith-based agencies or a
statement that you are no longer actively pursuing infertility treatment. Private
agencies tend to involve birth parents in the adoptive process and some allow the
birth parents to select their baby’s new family from family portfolios that are developed.