and
moratoriums happening with little or no notice, be very clear with the agency
on alternatives and refund policies should this occur.
13c. If the agency is essentially a one-man operation, you should
also be clear on what plans are in place should the primary contact have a
personal, family or medical situation arise where he or she can no longer
perform his or her functions. Find out what contingency plans exist and
who will take over should this occur. There have been cases where a
one-man agency or its programs deteriorate rapidly because such events
occurred and there was no back-up plan in place.
13d. Ask to
see a copy of the agency's audited financial statement. This is so
you can see if the agency is in good financial standings and is financially
stable. You don't want an agency that goes out of business while you are
in the middle of an adoption with them.
14. Try to
work with people who are paid fees for services rather than on a contingency
basis. Adoption workers paid on contingency have the income incentive for
volume and quick adoption completions, similar to a commission for completed,
delivered deals. Service may suffer under this kind of plan.
15. Try to get an itemized breakdown of where the foreign fees go and try to
confirm that in the foreign country. What you are trying to learn is if the
agency is marking-up and keeping the difference between actual foreign fees and
what they charge you, or enagaging in unethical practices, without disclosing
this to you. Another consideration here is that you want to know where
every penny of your adoption money goes so that you can be assured
that things like corruption, baby-buying and profiteering were not
part of your adoption process. This is what is mean when your hear
terminology that references a "transparent" process.
16. In cases and countries where the biological mother is identified, ask the
agency what kind of counseling and support their program offers to biological
mothers. The answer may help reveal the agency's commitment to fair and ethical
practices. Additionally, the level of service provided a biological mother,
along with the level of service provided a child in an orphanage or foster
care, should be a reflection of the level of service provided an adoptive
family.
17. The greatest number of complaints against adoption agencies concerns the
placement of children with undisclosed special medical and psychological
issues. Placing a child with these kinds of issues in a family that is
unequipped emotionally, physically and financially to handle them, along with
being uneducated and untrained about these issues, will often tear apart the
family and further damage the child.