5. You used to
be able to check for complaints at www.theadoptionguide.com . This was an award
winning site to use as a resource to help avoid adoption fraud and to see some
of the less than stellar experiences people have had with various adoption
workers. Although the URL for this site was sold to Adoptive Families magazine after it was
shut down due to litigation, if you use the Wayback Machine at www.archive.org,
you can access archived versions of this site and still make use of this
resource.
6. Check the
attorney/agency bulletin board at www.lapa-nnj.com. While this is the Northern New Jersey's chapter of the Latin American
Parents Association, this bulletin board is unique in that it really gives you
a sense of what people experienced with various agencies. Since many of the
agencies mentioned there have programs in other places besides Latin America, you might find mention of the agency
you are considering there.
Also, the sister site to The Adoption
Guide, www.adoptionnews.org,
featured a "rate your adoption" survey that I helped design and a
page where you can search by agency for the ratings given to that agency by
survey respondents. Unfortunately, this site was also shut down over
threats of litigation, but again, archived versions are available through the Wayback Machine at www.archive.org.
Three other sites where you can see how clients rate agencies and their
experiences are: www.eeadopt.org/home/services/agency/agency_registry/index.html,
www.adoptachild.org, and
http://web.archive.org/web/20020827095405/http:/adoptingfromrussia.com/.
Additionally, a relatively new organization, Ethica,
which promotes ethical adoptions, has an information-packed site and many
features geared towards consumer protection. They can be found at www.ethicanet.org. They have also started a new Coalition for
Change to promote ethical adoption reforms.
7. Check with the foreign country's US consulate. They may be aware of any
problems with the professionals you are considering.
8. Check with the US consulate in the foreign country. The INS officer there is the one responsible
for issuing orphan visas and should be very attuned as
to what adoption agencies, facilitators and attorneys have a history of
problems.
9. Consider hiring or consulting an experienced and reputable adoption attorney
in your area to protect your emotional and financial interests. While some may
view this as an unnecessary budget-breaking additional expense, spending a few
thousand dollars here can sometimes save you from losing tens of thousands of
dollars to